Embarrasment throughout the ceremony

[Louise]

I am begining to become very concerned that I will cry throughout the wedding ceremony, not only is it slightly embarrasing (although not entirely unexpected) but I look like a horror when I cry. My face goes immediately puffy and red, My nose goes all snotty and I don't even want to think about what will happen to the mascara.

My other problem is that if i stand still for a long time I get dizzy quite quickly. When I was a bridesmaid for a friend of mine i nearly passed out during the fitting because I was standing still for so long.

I am dreading what should be a lovely time, incase I make a fool of myself

[titianmac]

You poor thing!!!

Mascara is easy to fix... get your lashes tinted- and if you want extra flutter appeal have semi perminant lash extensions for the big day... Thats my plan!
Red face is counteracted by green stuff under your foundation....
er- what else ---
hmm, snotty nose, good luck! let me know the solution to that in a few weeks once you've dealt with it!!!

As for the dizzy thing Is it a church or civil service? Theres a lot of standing/ sitting in both and i'm quite sure if you tell the registrar/vicar they can sort something... its not like god would be mad or it'd be illegal to sit right?!?!?

[Louise]

Hi titianmac

I have taken note of what u have said and I thank you very much you give very good advise as I have seen on your previous posts and I respect your opinions.

It is a civil ceremony so I am not sure what the scene is there?? I might ask for a musical interlude or summat so i can have a seat!!

[titianmac]

I'm not sure wether to be proud or worried that people take what i say on board!!!

We're having a civil service... I'm told its 15-20 mins max and the important bit is that you will have a chair- i do anyway... i think!
We can have a max of 64 people in the venue seated and i was politely informed that includes the bride and groom so i can only assume we get a chair?!