any mature ladies

babs · Joined: 18 Sep 2004 Posts: 8

I love this site it is very friendly and almost intimate. Any older ladies here, I am 43 and as a second time bride. Wondering what we can get away with Laughing

chris · Guest

Hello, sorry I have only just seen this post or I would have replied before.
I'm a "mature lady", 54yrs young & also getting married for the second time. When is the "big day" for you, mine is 6th August 2005.

What do you mean get away with?, dress wise?...I'm wearing a lilac adult bridesmaid type dress...at my age I don't think it'll look good if I wear white.

Anyway keep in touch byee

chris Laughing

Nivv · Joined: 16 Jul 2005 Posts: 1

hi i am 39 and i am getting married 2006. I have never been married before so i am wondering what to do. I know friends that have got married at my age but it has been second marriages. Shall i go for the full set up? I have 3 children between the ages of 14 - 20 and i dont want to embarrass them. I have been very lucky and have met a man that has a very good job and we can afford quite a good wedding but i am worried about acting like a child bride when i am not

Mo*14/7/06* · Joined: 02 May 2005 Posts: 58

I am 38 and getting married for the second time, we are having about 60-70 guests at the ceremony and having about 100-120 at night, we are having our 3 children as bridesmaids and my bezzie mate as chief bridesmaid and peace keeper. My dress is more modern than traditional with a small train (i didn't want to look like mutton). I think you should go with whatever makes you happy, if you look in newspapers at the wedding section there are maturer ladies that go for the full works, dont have a small do if you are going to look back and say I wish I had the full monty, its your special day and should be how you want it, true friends will be happy for you regardless what you choose.