Please advise, my fiance is not the man I agreed to marry!

[manilla]

My fiance was chubby when we met, had quite a low self asteem which made him very shy. Since we named our date he has been on a diet for the big day. he has lost alot of weight and his confidence has grown. Initially I loved seeing him so full of beans but now it has taken a turn for the worse.

Fiance is now getting alot of interest from the females when he goes out, and because he never had it before he is going on about it full time. He is also looking at other girls (he never did that before)

I know he loves me, but he seems excited about the new found interest in him. This pisses me off royaly, because before this he treated me like a princess, now he treats me like I should be lucky to have him.

I feel like he was/is only with me because he thought I was in his league, and now he thinks he is bigger than my league.

So depressed!!!!

[bogtrotter]

If you are commited enough to marry each other, then you should be commited enough to be able to discuss things like this. I am sure he still loves you very very much.